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Culture of Violence Leads to Mass Shootings

            When it comes to gun violence, 2022 is off to a bad start.

A report on National Public Radio on May 15 noted that 2022 has seen 198 mass shootings so far this year. There have been more since then. It took reporters on CNN three minutes to just list all the number and cities where they occurred.  Information for these reports was compiled by an independent data collection organization (gunviolencearchive.org) 

During the weekend of May 14-15, ten people were killed in a racially inspired mass shooting [four or more homicides in the same location] in Buffalo, New York and there was a shooting at a California church that took one life and injured several others. Both were political, motivated by violence aimed at members of another group of people.

Some of my conservative Republican friends are proud of bumper stickers that tell us that “Guns don’t kill people, people kill people.”  Democrats call for gun control while Republicans blame mental illness for the killings. Of course, both contain some truth, but are very limited in their power to explain the increase in mass shootings. 

Yes, we have too many guns in circulation, many in the wrong hands.  But we also live in a period of political, social, and environmental stress.  We are racially and economically polarized in a situation complicated by illnesses, both viral and mental.  We are unhappy and we need to vent our anger at “the other side.”

It is time to face the stubborn facts that show we live in a culture of violence largely created by the far-right wing, supported by Republican Party leaders. 

Fact one: A report from the Anti-Defamation League (NYTimes 5-17-22) counted 450 U.S. murders committed by political extremists between 2012 and 2021. Seventy-five percent of these were committed by white supremacist, anti-government, and other right-wing groups.  Islamic extremists were responsible for about 20% and left-wing extremists for 4%.  

Fact two: Republican legislators and their supporters in the commercial and social media encourage us to believe that violence can solve our problems. Here are some examples:

  • Republican senators like Ted Cruz and Josh Hawley encouraged those who tried to reverse the results of the 2020 election with violence at the U.S. Capitol on January 6, 2021.
  • A study by the Institute for Research and Education on Human Rights (Dana Milbank, NYTimes 5-16-22) found that more than 1 in 5 Republican state legislators during 2021-2022 legislative sessions had affiliations with far-right Facebook groups; that is 22% of state legislators, only one of whom was a Democrat.
  • ProPublica last fall identified 48 Republican state legislators and local government officials who were members of the Oath Keepers, a militant armed far-right group.
  • An Arizona state senator, Wendy Rogers, received national attention for a speech to a white nationalist conference in February in which she called for violence.

Fact three: Right-wing web sites and Republican leaders contributed to the Buffalo shootings by spreading the racist “replacement theory” suggesting that Democrats were trying to fill America with blacks and immigrants (mostly people of color) to dilute the population of “real Americans’ who are white. When we deny the existence of racism in our society and allow the use of coded slurs such as “Let’s Go Brandon,” we are encouraging violence.

Fact four: For years, Republicans and Fox News have spread conspiracy theories about vaccines, called their opponents pedophiles, and said Democrats were enemies of individual liberty while simultaneously working to limit the freedom of all Americans to vote or to be taught accurate history. Such lies strengthen our culture of violence.

            We live in a fearful world of war, economic uncertainty, and climate crisis. Instead of addressing these problems, many Republicans want to scare people into giving them political power to accompany the economic power they already have. How will they use that power? Think about that!

When trying to end gun violence, it is as important to address racism and our culture of violence as it is to talk about mental illness, drugs, or too many guns—although those issues should be addressed as well. 

Until American voters decide to elect local and national leaders who will address these issues, mass shootings will only increase.

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Changes in Liberalism

This recent essay by my long time friend, Greg Cusack, also an American historian and former state Representative in Iowa, offers a good historical look at realities that most Americans are no longer aware of—K.W.

In struggling to arise above the inchoate, often content-empty “discussion” that passes today for civil discourse, I have been rethinking the curious reversal, in our history between the positions occupied by today’s “liberals” and “conservatives”. 

Please note: By “conservatives” I am referring to people like the principled men and women with whom I once served, folks who voice thoughtful positions, listen carefully to those with whom they disagree, and welcome meaningful compromise. Clearly these are not the same people as the rabble-babble of the far Right that has captured the Republican Party of today. These latter are more properly understood to be radicals and not “conservatives.”

The origins of modern “liberalism” can reasonably be fixed around the beginning of the 19th century, spurred by both the ongoing path of the industrial revolution and the social and political consequences of, and reactions to, the French Revolution of 1779 and its aftermath.

1. Laissez-faire economics

Whatever your political leanings, it might surprise you to learn that laissez-faire economics – such a prominent feature of Republicanism after Reagan – was originally embraced by liberals of a couple of centuries ago as a means of liberating the economy from the “dead hand” or control of the state and of traditional guilds (a development of the Middle Ages) in order that innovation, invention, and entrepreneurial “risk-taking” could lead the way towards greater prosperity (and, of course, enhanced wealth for the risk-takers!).

In fairness to our ideological ancestors – since I consider myself a liberal/progressive – it must be said that they had no idea of, nor experience with, the kind of industrial/financial capitalism that has come to dominate our world when they advanced their then-modern agenda.

Clearly – at least for those who view the world through lens crafted by fact and data – “hands-off” economics has proven to be a disastrous today because it allows funneling of disproportionate wealth to the already rich while largely ignoring the interests of the increasingly marginalized and the ecological needs of the planet.  The nation desperately needs appropriate governmental regulation of the economy to ensure a just distributional system to all citizens.

2. Universal suffrage

While most assume that this is a logical consequence of living in a democratic republic, its effects are not uniformly positive.

Remember that our own Founders rejected this idea, not only by limiting voting rights to free, white males who owned property but also by allowing them to directly elect only the members of the House of Representatives. (In the original scheme of the Constitution, the members of the federal Senate were to be selected by the several state legislatures and the president by “electors” identified by state legislatures as those men most likely to choose wisely and block the ascension of anyone unworthy for – or dangerous to – the office.)

For the liberals of the early 19th century, however, what they confronted in Europe was a system of franchise that was extremely limited and that, in effect, gave voting control only to landed aristocrats. In fact, the original push to expand the franchise came from the then-excluded rising ranks of the merchant class (a more accurate term than middle class) who insisted on their right to participate. Within a few decades of the 19th century liberals began to insist that all men (women were still excluded) be given the right to participate. 

A similar expansion of the franchise occurred in the United States as gradually all links to property were eliminated and we thought that this expansion would make politics more inclusive, fairer, and wiser.

However, when this expanded franchise was realized it soon became apparent that giving every male the vote was not a guaranteed path to a more liberal republican (as opposed to monarchic) order. As the populations in all countries then was still overwhelmingly rural and peasant/farmer based, liberals discovered to their dismay that this element of the population was more likely to be traditional – and, hence, conservative – than in any sense liberal, let alone radical!

As events of the next 150 years demonstrated, while rural forces could briefly be “radical” in some respects – moving, for instance, to support the overthrow of such despotic regimes as in Tsarist Russia – they always reverted to more traditional positions within a relatively short time. As we now see, this tendency of rural and small town residents appears universal.

Moreover, as repeated studies in the United States over the past 70 years have shown, the average voter even today is abysmally ignorant of all but the most immediate, provocative events. Surveys exploring voter knowledge about, say, the structure of the US government under the Constitution demonstrate the shocking non-knowledge most citizens have, let alone on such questions as how laws are proposed and enacted, the names of their own congressional and state representatives, or in foreign relations. 

The idea that the universal franchise would bring a welcome flood of broadened and informed voters to the table has been shown to be illusory. Conclusion: There should be urgent attention given to how to ensure that the most important public questions can find ways to command public attention and, thus, enhance citizen knowledge. The alternative of limiting the franchise only to those “most informed” is filled with demonstrable pitfalls that should prevent us from “going there” at all!

3. Nationalism

This, too, was once a liberal response to perceived fragmented states in which monarchs ruled over parts of “a people” – as was the case in the numerous German states in the early 19th century or over a mix of different “peoples” such as existed in the Austro-Hungarian Empire.

This surge towards nationalism resulted in the unification of both Germany and Italy by the middle of the 19th century, something celebrated at the time as a clear “good.

It also led, however, to a sense of inter-national rivalry and a competition as to which nation-state was, or deserved to be, better or on top. Such national rivalries were a major source of both late 19th century European colonial imperialism and the Great War of 1914-1918. 

Nationalism is a fairly logical development of the tribal instincts deeply woven into human DNA, and while it can serve as a unifying force by creating or reinforcing a sense of commonality among peoples of diverse origins and beliefs, it can also be severely divisive both between and within states when nationalism devolves into a darker form that insists on distinguishing between those who are the “pure” people and those “others” who are not.

4. Self-determination of ethnic peoples

This was one of the rallying points in Woodrow Wilson’s Fourteen Points which he hoped would frame the guidelines that would govern the establishment of a just and lasting peace following the horrors of World War II. [Although the Germans sued for peace on the basis of the terms contained therein the leaders of France and Great Britain instead imposed a harsh settlement upon Germany intended to forever keep Germany in “second place.” And we all know how well that turned out!]

Again, much like universal franchise, the idea of self-determination appears to be an “obvious” good thing. But, as was quickly demonstrated in the Versailles Treaty and has been a glaring reality ever since, just where to draw the geopolitical lines is an impossible headache, especially as during more recent years self-determination has not only been associated with nationalism but also with tribal identities within nations.

At Versailles, for example, among those pleading for recognition as deserving of independent status because of their ethnicity were the Vietnamese (in the person of Ho Chi Minh, no less). But, since Vietnam at the time was one of the colonies of France – one of the major powers that had prevailed in World War I – this request was ignored. And then, as part of the harsh punishment meted out to Germany, some territories were taken from Germany and given to France even though the majority of the occupants were German.

And  there are people within established nations today that could argue from the basis of history and self-determination that they should be allowed to enjoy some degree of relative independence or autonomy from the central government. 

As if this were not difficult enough, waves of immigration in recent years – and the anticipated even greater disruptions that global warming will cause by making large portions of our globe uninhabitable in coming years – have added even greater emotion and a sense of urgency to this matter.

Many historians have portrayed the last several hundred years as a period when unified nation-states came to prevail over smaller political units. More recent events, however, raise questions about how enduring this “triumph” may yet prove to be as centrifugal forces within states seem to be growing in power. Is the future likely to see a renewal of the several German and Italian “little states” that existed prior to the 1860s? Will the United States become disunited in fact as it already seems to be in rhetoric and political preference?

5. Tension between individuals and the community, or self-interest vs. that of the common good

While the Founders of this country certainly recognized the pull of individual freedom, both their intellectual heritage of the Enlightenment of the 18th century and their struggle to achieve independence from Great Britain caused them to emphasize striving to attain and preserve the common good as being of the utmost importance.

As is apparent in several sections of The Federalist Papers, they certainly understood and respected both the rights of individuals and the powerful pull of the pursuit of self-interest. But they tried to harness these inherent impulses to the common good through the structure of government they devised and through their emphasis on the primacy of always teaching citizens how to embody republican civic virtue, that is, the understanding of the necessity of always placing the common good above individual self-interest without which, they warned, our new democratic republic could not long survive.

Despite this, the behavior of many Americans from the very beginning challenged such hopes. Part of this is because the integral logic of capitalism is individual advantage and part is because Americans, feeling themselves liberated from the many class and social structures so dominant in Europe felt newly free to pursue “who they were” (even if they would not likely have used such a term in those days). 

The idea that the “good of the country” could most likely be achieved through the pursuit of individual self-interest came to be widespread, if more in practice than in theory. 

 When the Transcendentalists came long beginning in the 1830s, while they too emphasized the importance of the individual, they nonetheless retained the earlier connection between individuals and the larger common good. While, on the one hand, they carried forward the momentum of the scientific and intellectual revolution of the previous couple of centuries in challenging long-held – but largely unquestioned assumptions (including the role and teachings of the Church) – they also believed that the fruits of individual liberation from dogmatic rigidizes would redound to the benefit of the larger society. Thus, their individualism was tied to the organic whole, in a much healthier way (to my mind at least) than was found in the logic of unrestrained capitalism.

For a brief time during and after the Civil War, the idea of the national interest once again achieved primary importance. However – and it is one of the reasons the Reconstruction effort failed – the lures of profit, economic and physical expansion of the country, and the many opportunities thus available for individuals to make a fortune (even if more in myth than fact) served to make the closing decades of the 19th century one of the most ruthless periods of capitalism in US history so far (as our present years are proof of a resurgence of Gilded Age tycoon dominance).

Then, in reaction to the consequences of this self-serving individualism, there were two periods in the last 130 years when the larger common good once again came – however tenuously – to predominate: the Progressive Era of the early 20th century (extinguished by WWI and its immediate aftermath) and the longer period from the Great Depression through most of the 1960s when the common man and woman – as well as the survival of the United States – came to be the focus of public focus and private concern.

However, by the time Reagan had become president, the pendulum was already swinging back to the idolization of individual primacy as realized through untrammeled capitalism. As is still evident today, the idea of any common good is quickly thought by many (most?) to be a threatening idea of socialist/communist origin.

As a much-needed corrective to this line of belief, I recommend to you Cathonomics: How Catholic Tradition Can Create a More Just Society, by Anthony Annett, which correctly – to me, at least – frames how individuals and our behavior fits within the larger context of all of us – i.e., the common good. This book helps remind us that every act of ours is both political and consequential to the rest of us.

In all of this rationalizing over the role of the individual, liberals have waxed, waned, and wobbled! Just like the larger society.

While 19th century, pre-Civil War liberals did celebrate and defend the rights and roles of individuals, they did so within the context of multiple checks upon excess individualism, such as the many ethical and moral codes constantly reinforced by church and synagogue as well as the controls upon individual economic excesses still extent by states and localities. 

Liberals were among the earliest to join with others in calling for the abolition of slavery and, much later, for women to achieve equal political rights as well as men. Liberals were also prominent in both the Progressive Movement and the New Deal.

However, beginning with the period of the Vietnam War, liberals once again began to get their feet muddied by complicity in supporting the war effort and, more consequential in the long run, for eventually going along with the “new economics” that led, among other things, to the largely unregulated “globalism” that has wrought such devastation upon working-class citizens and so many once-thriving communities, large and small. These same “neo-liberals” enthusiastically embraced the beginning of our forever wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

More recently, many liberals have also – quite mistakenly, in my view – gone “overboard” in their celebration of identity groups that have morphed into identity politics. It is important to recognize that this divisive position is not just the purview of the Right alone! In so doing, they have once again forgotten that individuals apart from the whole are not only isolated but powerless in preventing the collapse of the common good.

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Can you be moral and a Democrat?

            Several decades ago, I was trying to convince a young man in Murray to vote for Democrats in an upcoming national election.  He replied that he couldn’t vote for Democrats because they “kill babies.”  Taking life needlessly is an unapproved form of murder, different from approved murders by soldiers in our many wars, in self-defense known as justifiable homicide, and in prisons executions we call kjhklhbhj  capital punishment.

We see unapproved killing as immoral and link morality with religion, even though one can be moral or ethical without being religious.  Morals are simply telling the difference between right and wrong.

            Even in the 1970s, before the Moral Majority movement of Jerry Falwell in the 1980s, Republicans had begun working to convince Americans that they were the only party that supported morality.  They convinced many evangelical Christians, especially in the South, that truly moral people must vote Republican because Democrats favor women’s rights to their own bodies and immigration to the United States by non-Christians.

            Republicans also sneered that many Democrats didn’t go to church, and those that did attended “off-brand” churches like those of Presbyterians, Episcopalians, and Unitarian Universalists.

            What can we make of all of this?  

            Democrats are no more and no less moral than Republicans.  We are all, to use the familiar Christian term, sinners. So how have some Christians on the political right been able to convince their brothers and sisters in Christ that only Democrats are immoral sinners?

            The answer is found, like many interesting things, in our history. 

Before 1980, many religious people were careful not to publicly favor any one political party. Catholics, Protestant, and Jews all claimed to be good, patriotic Americans. 

When I began Catholic grade school in 1949, at the intersection of 4th and Main in downtown Davenport, Iowa, all eight grades of us stood before school on a large patio, in full view of downtown city traffic, raised the flag, and recited the pledge of allegiance—and that was five years before President Eisenhower put the words “under God” in the pledge 1954, to assure everyone that Americans were not godless communists. We even had an American flag in our church in those days.

 That changed in the 1980s when President Reagan and Jerry Falwell’s “Moral Majority” captured the flag of Evangelical Christianity and planted it firmly on the Right side of the American political spectrum.  Even in the 1970s, many Republicans did not see abortion as an example of murder, but they all came to do so once they saw it as a way to win evangelical Christian votes. They began by using their gift for inflammatory language to call abortion “infanticide.”

Alas, the Democratic Party didn’t hire the right public relations firms soon enough and, in any case, were divided among themselves on abortion. They were able to win back some votes by defending a woman’s right to choose, a slogan making them even more “immoral” in evangelical Christian eyes. 

This was a brilliant and successful political tactic by Republicans, which may have accomplished its goal after 50 years, judging from the national attention given recently to the leaked draft of a decision by the Supreme Court to ban abortions, reversing the Roe v. Wade decision of 1973, which made abortion a constitutional right.

Well, now that this issue may finally be settled, perhaps my young friend who couldn’t vote for baby-killers several decades ago will consider voting for Democrats, with whom he might agree on other issues.

Like other ethical voters, my friend probably saw abortion procedures as far more serious than the other moral evils in American politics, such as lying, cheating, and stealing.  Admittedly, those more acceptable sins do not have the emotional pull babies and children have upon us, something our Republican friends understood when choosing abortion as their major campaign issue.

However, now that victory over abortion seems to be at hand, at least in red states, moral Republicans can look to some of the other immoral behaviors of their political leaders. They can condemn politicians who tell Big Lies about election results, for example.

Who knows where this might lead?  Why, perhaps you can be moral and a Democrat, after all!

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Living in a Dream World

It is not unusual to hear the phrase “living the dream.”  For over a generation it has generally meant that someone was living their imagined best life.  It has also been used to refer to the American Dream, which is the idea that all who work hard in America can prosper and live the “good life,” usually understood to mean personal freedom and economic success.

            Part of that American dream included the idea of living in a democracy marked by government “of the people, by the people, and for the people” a famous phrase in Lincoln’s Gettyburg Address that I memorized in grade school. 

            That American dream of freedom and of opportunity for all to “achieve more than their parents” is under assault in the United States. Those responsible are not just Trumplicans but also, to some degree, members of both majority political parties.  

            Too many of today’s leaders have replaced Living the Dream with Living in a Dream.   Allow me to begin with Republicans, since more of them seem to live in this dream world.

Republicans Live in a dream world when:

  • they really think that storms, fires and floods caused by climate change will become manageable b once we elect more Republicans and stop “reckless” Democratic plans to slow carbon-dioxide pollution of the environment;
  • they really think that ending the right to safe and legal abortions will make America a less sinful nation, but then ignore the continual, widespread lying about the results of the 2020 election. Lying, like murder, weakens the moral fiber of our nation; both are included in the ten commandments;
  • they really think that the political polarization that they have encouraged since Newt Gingrich told Republicans to consider Democrats enemies instead of opponents in the 1990s will end once they control the agencies and levers of power in Washington; 
  • they really think that suppressing the votes of people who might disagree with them will be a successful tactic for keeping power; how do they imagine people will “assemble peacefully and petition their government” for address of grievances once the ballot box is no an option for promoting change or even expressing disagreement with politicians and policies?

Republicans, however, don’t live in this fantasy world all by themselves. 

An article in The New Republic (TNR 4-18-22) a liberal magazine, discussed the inability of Democrats in the Senate to pass legislation which would have protected voting rights from a Supreme Court threat to look anew at Section 2 of the original Voting Rights Act, which says that “abridging voting rights of racial and ethnic minorities was discriminatory regardless of intent,” that is, even if you claim election fraud.

            The author of this article ended the piece by saying that, even though Republican bias would dominate “the Senate and the Electoral College for many, many years to come…democratic reforms should continue building public support” for new legislation to protect voting rights. 

Democrats live in a dream world:

  • when they believe that they have time to slowly “build public support” to thwart Republican assaults on our democratic republic. How can Democrats “build support” for “democratic reforms” when they lose control of state legislatures and Congress to Republicans;
  • when they fail to recognize that Democrats cannot earn enough votes by raising money from the very wealthy; they should return to policies, beyond Obamacare, that demonstrate, in word and deed, authentic concern for all the poor and middle-class voters who supported Trump;
·      when they claim success by winning the presidency and (barely) the Senate, and spend far less money on Congressional, state, and even local races. The troubles facing the Biden administration should have convinced them that the White House is not enough;
  • when they appear unable to find enough national and leaders who speak with clarity, conviction, and genuine understanding on issues of systemic racism and poverty that so afflict the poor they claim to represent; 

We live in a world in which many Republicans and their “base” have abandoned democracy, tried to steal the 2020 election, and plan to win in 2022 and 2024, by “hook or crook.”

Their success could turn the American Dream into a nightmare. Think about that the next time you vote!

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How to Reduce Abortions

         We like to see Kentucky in the national news, but it is unfortunate when this happens due to something tragic, like the West Kentucky tornado that hit Mayfield last December or the decision made by the Kentucky General Assembly to pass a bill that effectively made safe abortions impossible in our state. (Washington Post, 4-14/15-22; Forward Kentucky 4-19-22)

This new law, modeled on those passed recently in Florida and Mississippi, bans abortion after 15 weeks of pregnancy, and requires that fetal remains be cremated or buried.  It makes no exception for incest or rape, but only allows abortion if a woman’s life is in danger. 

Don’t misunderstand.  Like many of my fellow Democrats, I am opposed to abortions, just as I am opposed to rape, incest, unnecessary wars, racism, and other sins of violence against humans. This anti-abortion bill is tragic not only because it could end safe and legal abortions in Kentucky but also 

because it does not address the issue of the health and freedom of woman, or the moral problem of protecting and supporting human life once a child is born.

It is also tragic that, in what has become a Republican pattern, this bill scores political points at the expense of women, especially poor ones. The Guttmacher Institute reported in 2014 that 49% of women seeking abortions lived below the federal poverty line, and another 26% were close to the poverty level.

Before the Senate’s vote to override Governor Beshear’s veto of the anti-abortion bill, Senator Stephen Meredith called abortion “a stain on our country” and “our greatest sin.”  This smugly righteous and moralistic comment shows a callous disregard for the women and their families in his fifth district counties of Breckinridge, Butler, Grayson, Meade, and Ohio.

 If our legislators genuinely believe abortion is murder, they would forbid it absolutely, not only after fifteen weeks. This would, of course, mix religion and politics, something many Republicans say we should not do.  And since we want to keep crime down, does even the most judgmental Republican really want us to call abortion a capital crime?  Really?

Besides, if Republicans were really pro-life instead of just pro-birth, they would help people “womb to tomb,” and pay as much attention to the sad state of many nursing homes and prisons as they do to abortion. They might even introduce legislation that provides free day care for working mothers living in poverty, and make birth control more easily available.

And they could work to end capital punishment, since DNA tells us that we sometimes execute innocent people.

            Of course, we cannot keep people from sinning, even if we consider abortion sinful, and we love to punish sinners. Even though Christians know Jesus told the woman at the well to “go and sin no more” without condemning her (John 4:1-42).  Whatever our beliefs, we could reduce abortions by making it easier for women to choose pregnancy and adoption as an alternative. 

            We could show that we care and improve the health of women by providing medical and emotional help to women in such a difficult situation, even if this means using tax money to help those in poverty pay for medical care and counseling when needed.  It would also help if we used public money to underwrite some of the costs of adoption for those unable to afford such costs.

            That would, of course, make abortion a less effective political issue for Republicans. 

            Instead, Republicans have just made it more difficult for Kentuckians in need—including hungry children—to receive health care and food assistance [see https://www.wkyfin.org/2022-03-29/kentucky-senate-committee-advances-bill-tightening-rules-for-food-benefits-medicaid]

            Republicans know that those who can afford to travel to other states will always be able to secure legal or illegal, safe or unsafe abortions, regardless of anti-abortion laws.  These laws are aimed at the poor, not the wealthy, and that makes them both hypocritical and judgmental.  

            We all make poor choices, and are emotionally vulnerable at times. Legislators who pass anti-abortion bills are making very poor choices, both because they are imposing their moral views on others, and are doing this in a way that opens the way for unsafe abortions.

            This behavior is callous and dishonorable for any public servant.

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Polarization: Here to Stay?

            Two events in American politics in early May, 2022, have clarified what many of us have been lamenting for years. These were the victory of the Trump-endorsed candidate in the Republican primary in Ohio followed by the leak to Politico of Justice Alito’s draft of a likely Supreme Court decision outlawing abortion.

Both events constitute an early stage in a process still incomplete; J.D. Vance hasn’t yet been elected to the Senate, and the Supreme Court will not confirm the draft decision until June. Nevertheless, it should be clear to all of us that the most serious political polarization in America since 1860 is not about to go away—regardless of who we elect to Congress in 2022, or President of the United States in 2024.

It also appears clear to me that there are two possible responses to this situation. Each side can maintain and even exult in the righteousness of its position, claiming that God (or maybe just the power of money) is on its side, and continue the fight to overthrow its “enemies” OR both sides can over time (and it will take some time) make an effort to find what little common ground might remain—and in doing so save our democracy.

The second choice is the best one. However, to move in this direction we must deny the inevitability of polarization and the ultimate victory of one side or the other in this political conflict fed largely by human-centered arrogance and ego.

It certainly will not be easy to make that second choice.  Indeed, it seems contrary to what many of us have been taught was our “original sin,” inherited from Adam, inclining us to do evil; this ideas was amusingly portrayed by Flip Wilson comment in his early 1970s TV show: “The Devil made me do it!”

Yet who among us wants to say that there can never be a middle or common ground? Don’t we all yearn for peace and harmony, even if that means that none of us gets all of what we want?  This requires that we learn how to talk calmly and respectfully with political opponents.

With the help of a life-long friend who served 9 years in the Iowa House of Representatives, I offer the following suggestions on how to talk politics with others calmly while allowing all to “disagree without being disagreeable.”

  • Begin your conversation with something non-controversial, even the weather, and commit to speaking calmly without becoming riled or defensive, neither of which help;
  • Ask questions instead of making pronouncements; when discussing something you both agree is a problem, ask “well, how would you fix it?” and listen to the answer;
  • Then offer your solution to how you might “fix” the problem or address the issue, perhaps in the process even admitting that “your side” might have made some mistakes along the way;
  • When possible, start your discussion with a local or regional issue, because both you and your partner will be more informed about the matter and thus less likely to offer answers taken from your “tribal” group’s playbook;
  • As the conversation proceeds, be careful to seek common agreement on the meaning of terms, and in this way avoid “boilerplate” or “sound bite” answers common among politicians;
  • Maintain your sense of humor throughout; find reasons to laugh as often as possible;
  • Politely walk away if you must, but resist leaving with a middle-finger salute.

Of course, none of these suggestions are worth much unless you and your partner in conversation are open to changing your minds about an issue if confronted with a reasonable argument supported by evidence.

There is much at stake here. The political issues alone go to the core of what we want to be as a country, politically and morally.  Beyond that, we face the earth-shattering challenge of a changing climate that could result in several decades in the loss of billions of human lives, as well as a complete reshaping of all life on our planet.

Can we afford to continue on our current polarized paths?   That may be a question we will only have a decade or so to address.