I first encountered the work of the Quaker educator and social activist Parker Palmer in 1998 when I joined some colleagues at Murray State to discuss his book The Courage to Teach (1997). Our college of Humanities had just instituted a program of “Teaching Circles” whereby faculty members from different departments could apply to receive several hundred dollars to buy books or lunch and get together to discuss a topic that crossed disciplinary lines.
Later in 2016, I joined another group of academic friends to discuss his treatise The Healing of Democracy (2011). We were reading that book while watching the election of the first American president who took as his aim the weakening instead of the healing of that democracy.
Palmer is a man of spiritual depth who believes that we can only become whole by opening our heart—what he calls “breaking open our heart”—to others. He is also a poet, a devotee of the late Thomas Merton, holder of a Ph.D in Sociology, and founder of the Center for Courage and Renewal, a leadership and training institute for teachers and other professionals: It’s mission is “to create a more just, compassionate and healthy world by nurturing personal and professional integrity and the courage to act on it.”
It was this year, 2020, that I became aware of his little collection of essays and poems entitled On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old (2018). This is not a systematic look at the stages of retirement or old age, but rather a series of psychological and spiritual reflections on aging.